Small Simple Ways is a lovely book by retreat leader Vinita Hampton Wright, who offers her trademark compassion and encouragement, to lift readers up and help propel them forward. This book covers 52 weeks (Monday through Sunday) structured into four-week sections to focus on a principle of spiritual growth, as taught by St Ignatius of Loyola including;
- God in All things
- Spiritual Freedom
- Imagination
- Reflection
Each day connects the general focus with a specific aspect or action of healthy spiritual life such as:
- Compassion
- Discernment
- Generosity
- Gratitude
- Integrity
Sundays are reserved as a day for resting our hearts in God. Through practice and repetition of these basics thoughts that build upon themselves over the course of a year, the book helps you to step into your future, with good healthy spiritual habits.
Everyone can find time in their life for prayer, and it’s a little bit what has gone wrong with modern society. No matter what your faith, just spending a few minutes each day being thankful and praying to the God that you feel comfortable with, is a great way to start each day. Blogger Ronke gets up at 5.30am each morning and makes time for reading her Bible, then reads something uplifting, then has some gentle exercise before a shower and breakfast. By the time her children wake, she’s ready for the day in a positive mindset. Having a routine like this sets you up far better for the day, than lying in bed thinking ‘oh God, not another day to get through, what could go wrong this time?’
If you’re not familiar with Catholic faith (not the same as the Catholic church run by the Vatican who takes $30,000 a month to rent out a building to McDonald’s) and has a history of covering up sexual abuse, it helps to learn that there are various orders:
- Dominicans are the studious intellectuals
- Franciscans are inspired by St Francis of Assisi
- Jesuits have many scholars (one is Pope Francis)
- Benedictines produce a high-caffeine wine that apparently tastes awful, but is popular with Glaswegians on rough estates to get them going. Known locally as a bottle of ‘what are you looking at?!’
- Passionists are known for helping the poor and downtrodden, inspired by St Paul of the Cross in Italy (and know that some ‘Catholic MP’s have indeed had a rap on the knuckles by many priests for their policies on poverty etc).
- Ignatians have a passion in helping people follow their vocation for God. If you feel you have a calling to do something to help, this is the place to go and the books to read. They also believe strongly in discernment, which is making decisions based on God’s Will.
- Microshifts is a wonderful book by a Catholic writer Gary Jansen, to help you make small adjustments in the way you think, act, work and pray, to gradually reshape deep rooted patterns. Rather than think of a relationship with God as a daily burden, this can help you to look forward to quiet time. Blending masterful storytelling with practical tips, he suggests simple small changes such as how we greet others, how we sleep and how we deal with the chatter in our heads.
The Dominicans are my favourite Catholic order, because everyone needs a favourite. It’s like baseball. The Franciscans are busy loving anything and everything that comes across their path. Rabbits. Kittens. Spiders. Trees. Mushrooms. Kevin Davis
If you have a feeling in your bones that Jesus Christ is not a Trump-supporting, gun-carrying right-wing activist who believes in drilling oil before saving polar bears – read The Lost Religion of Jesus. This book by a knowledgeable scholar delves into the real history, to find the man lost behind organised religion. And yes he was a quiet, peaceful pacifist!
Secrets of the Lost Mode of Prayer is worth a read. Gregg Braden describes an ancient form of prayer that was lost 17 centuries ago, and how St Francis believed the ‘beautiful and wild forces within us’ was the most powerful force in the universe. Despite the orders of the early Christian Church which found this prayer method removed, it’s still used in remote monasteries of Tibet today. There are no words or outward expressions, just timeless secrets revealed through personal accounts and case histories. In simple terms, the book explains why prayer often does not work – we’ve been doing it wrong all along! Real prayer is feeling like your prayer has been answered (sometimes to God’s Will), blessing and forgiving everyone and seeing beauty and goodness in all.
One man who spent years meditating in the US and attended seances and more, said (after he had converted to Catholicism) that he only found peace after coming across a church and finding ‘old ladies praying in peace’ inside. He carried on with his plan to visit an occult centre to become a medium, but after feeling a ‘dark sticky feeling’, he left, became a Catholic and never went back.
The founder of Manna Cards was (and still is) a turtle-loving environmental scientist, who now devotes her life to making lovely prayer cards on eco paper, after her own revelation.
What Can We Learn from the Poor Clares?
Calm the Soul: A Book of Simple Wisdom and Prayer is a beautiful book of practical advice in preparing for prayer, by an enclosed order of nuns based in Galway, Ireland. This book by the Poor Clares draws on the fruits on their monastic lives, and suggests simple practices to help nourish the soul, and find a sense of calm in today’s stressful world.
St Clare of Assisi was an Italian friend and devotee of St Francis of Assisi, the beloved patron saint of animal welfare, but also of ecology and simple living (he was a real party boy, before he became a saint!) These nuns are an interesting bunch, with between them former lives of being accountants and university activists. Today they live a simple life of praise, prayer and work, centred on God alone.
Learn ways to slowly build up the amount of time spent in prayer and meditation daily, to achieve peace and well-being. This is not about gazing at your naval, more about reflection on common prayers in the Catholic faith such as the Our Father and Hail Mary. Includes meditations on Scripture, and prayers for specific needs such as sickness and depression.
Poor Clare orders live mostly in silence, and this is a great starting point. Our life is now so noisy. Just turning off and not speaking (or listening to anyone speak unless of importance) for a few hours is good. A lot of modern stress is caused by saying the wrong thing, listening to others saying things to upset you (including in the media) or having opinions about things that others are saying. If people just shut up, none of these problems would exist!
But it is not just silence, it is silence in prayer. Prayer is not ‘asking for what you want’, rather ‘listening to God’. Even when people pray novenas (9 day prayers to ask God for help), the idea is not to say ‘you didn’t give me what I wanted!’, if the novena ‘doesn’t work out’. It’s all at God’s Will. The whole purpose of a novena is to bring one closer to God, so that sometimes what is asked for is not given, other times it is not given for the wrong reasons (selfishness). And other times we are asked to wait.
The Poor Clares of Galway writes that ‘like music, we need both notes and rests – sound and the silence unite to produce a harmonious blend’. So don’t just churn out a list of wants. Remember that before Jesus raised Lazarus, he turned to the Lord first in thanksgiving.
Praying Through Pain is a book for anyone who is suffering, and words cannot help. You may feel angry or confused, and that makes it tough to turn to God. And well-meaning family and friends may say ‘just be patient’ or ‘offer it up’, which leaves you feeling worse. In this book, Barbara offers a simple and practical way to communicate with God in difficult times including:
- Scripture stories of pain
- How to use Ignatian spirituality effectively
- Mini-prayers, words & phrases to help
Read this book any way that suits your personal journey. Dip into a chapter that speaks to the emotions you’re feeling. Or sit with a passage of Scripture until it sinks into your heart. Talk to God about what you’re feeling, then listen for the voice of God to help.
Each brief chapter focuses on one emotion or state of being, offering meditations, prayers and Scripture. For instance, the chapter on Impatience includes a passage from Ecclesiastes to remind you there is ‘an appointed time for everything’. The chapter on Helplessness reminds that ‘it is when we are most helpless that we turn to God’. There are also chapters on Trauma and Anger, and lessons including Psalms and questions for contemplation.
About the Author
Barbara Lee is a spiritual director with a ministry for older people in New York City. A retired lawyer and former magistrate, she is a long-serving member of Ignatian Volunteer Corps which help people in the community.